It’s not hard to tell when something doesn’t feel right. Maybe you are dealing with someone who showed you a different person in the beginning. This could make it hard to believe when they show their true colors. However, there are usually signs that you aren’t in a good situation. The last thing you want is to describe your relationship as “toxic”. These are 3 signs of an unhealthy relationship.
1.Constant Arguing. You find that your partner likes to argue. They have no problem calling you out of your name and causing a scene. This is a red flag. If you notice you are with someone who starts an argument over anything, you might want to do some thinking. Think about rather or not that is something that you can handle.
2. Accusations. Being accused of something you didn’t do can damage your relationship. Accusing your partner of things that didn’t clue can make them think you don’t trust them. This may lead you to believe that they are doing something, but they are trying to pin it on you. A relationship is built on trust. If there is no trust, then what is the point. When the trust leaves, it won’t be long before you do too.
3. Control. I have always thought that in a relationship the best thing I can be is myself. A controlling partner may want you to act in a certain way or do certain things. Seemingly changing how you think and act. That is the only way that they will be satisfied. Before you know it, you will be afraid to do or say the things you normally would for fear of causing an argument.
There are only 3 signs of an unhealthy relationship. When you start to notice things like this it is time to make a decision. Do you stay and try to work it out or do you leave with nothing but the clothes on your back? Make the best choice for you and stay strong.
Gaslighting, backhanded compliments, and general erosion of your self-esteem would be other examples
Great examples!!!